ABOUT ME
Hi, I'm Marilyn!
I help intentional parents like you get to calm and truly connect with your children, so you can experience more love, joy and peace in your home, and raise kind, resilient children who thrive.
I am . . .
- a Certified Trauma-informed Peaceful Parenting Coach
- the Founder of Peaceful Parenting Singapore
- a Growing Up Mindful (Level 1) Teacher
and most importantly,
- a Highly Sensitive Catholic mum of a sweet, spirited, highly sensitive child.
Dear parent, I see you.
You are doing the best you can.
You’re here because you’re an intentional (or highly sensitive) parent who has read all the parenting books, listened to parenting podcasts, enrolled in tonnes of parenting courses, and tried everything, but still feel like you’re struggling with your child’s meltdowns, aggression or back talk.
- Does it seem like the tools that you learnt are not working?
- Do they feel too hard to implement or follow through?
- Do you find yourself resorting to yelling, threats and punishments (even when you don't want to)?
- Do you find yourself struggling and wish you could ace this Peaceful Parenting gig?
I see you.
I was like you, some years ago;
- until I realised it isn't just about learning the tools, but about consistent practice and getting the support that we need for ourselves.
- I finally discovered the key to “acing” (aka embodying) Peaceful Parenting - and I want to help you get there.
- I developed my 5-step FAITH parenting framework exactly for this reason. I’ve been where you are. And today, I’ve progressed a lot more from where I was before.
It still doesn't mean I never get dysregulated though, because I am human! 😊 The difference now is, instead of beating myself up when I do, I can now acknowledge and honour my hummaness. I am also better able to notice it as a cue that I haven't been taking care of myself and I need to recalibrate, fill my cup and reset my nervous system.
It's often also a cue that I have been taking on too much - juggling a full plate and feeling overwhelmed; having to cope with sensory overload. I have learnt the importance of setting and honouring boundaries, and actually practising them - whether they be loving limits with my child or other adults in my life, or whom I come in contact with.
I offer myself compassion, remembering I’m doing the best I can, and get the support that I need.
I show up as best as I can, as consistently and often as I can. And I am so grateful that my deep bond with my child remains consistently strong, even despite the many (temporary) ruptures that we have.
- This is the power of Peaceful Parenting.
I’ve personally experienced the transformative power of repair, and how modelling repair has helped my child learn to also appreciate and initiate repair.
And I want to help you achieve the same with your children! 🫶🏻
Remember you are not alone, and I'm here to support you.
I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars on professional level trainings and courses, and I’ve done all the research and work for you, so you don't have to! All you need to do is show up with a willing & open heart, and focus on applying and practising the tools in transforming your parenting.
I will guide you through my 5-step FAITH parenting framework, backed by neuroscience and research in child development, and tailor a step-by-step plan – just for you and your unique family.
WHY INVEST IN PARENT COACHING
Get the support you deserve
Parenting is hard work. And we're not meant to do it alone. You're a committed parent who wants to transform your parenting. You want to regain peace, connection and joy in your home, and you are in this for the long haul. You are focused on your long-term goal: raising children who grow into kind, resilient adults who thrive in our world. You're not looking for quick fixes that are not sustainable. You've tried everything and you want targeted support and guidance to help you navigate the challenges of parenting.
I see you.
And I've been where you are.
Let me help and support you in not just improving your relationship with your children, ending the power struggles and raising resilient children who thrive; but also, in taking care of you, so that you can show up (as often and as consistently as you can) as the calm, loving parent you want and know you were meant to be.
- Practice makes progress.
Remember, we are not aiming for perfection, but progress! Because perfection is impossible - since we are human! 😊
If you’re ready to learn about my framework, click the button below to download my free guide, or book a free discovery call with me.
Let’s make peaceful parenting work for you & your family!
MY CREDENTIALS
- Certified Peaceful Parenting Coach - via Dr. Laura Markham; Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids; USA.
- Certified Peaceful Parenting Educator - via Dr. Laura Markham; Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids; USA.
- Certified Peaceful Parenting Instructor - via Genevieve Simperingham; Peaceful Parent Institute; New Zealand.
- Certified Trauma-informed Coach - via The Centre for Healing; Australia.
- Certified Growing Up Mindful (Level 1) Teacher - via Dr. Christopher Willard; USA.
- Bachelor of Arts in Mass Communication (Journalism & Radio) – via Murdoch University; Perth, Western Australia.
OTHER CERTIFICATION / CONTINUING EDUCATION & ONGOING TRAINING
- Peter Levine, Ph.D.'s Trauma & Memory Course: Somatic Experiencing® Skills to Help Clients Get Unstuck and Restore Their Lives - via Dr. Peter Levine, PESI Inc.; USA.
- The Body as Healer: Working from the Bottom Up - via Dr. Peter Levine, PESI Inc.; USA.
- Positive Neuroplasticity Training - via Dr. Rick Hanson; USA.
- Positive Neuroplasticity Training - the Professional Course: via Dr. Rick Hanson; USA.
- Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) - via Dr. Dan Siegel, Mindsight Institute; USA.
- Beyond Behaviours: Effective Neuroscience-based Tools to Transform Childhood Behaviours - via Dr. Mona Delahooke, Psychotherapy Networker; USA.
- Catholic Coaching Foundations - via Metanoia Catholic; USA.
- DBT Skills for Highly Sensitive People - via Emma Lauer LCSW; USA.
- Marital First Responder (Level 1 training) - via Singapore University of Social Sciences and Catholic Family Life; Singapore.
- Us Relationship Live Workshops - via Terry Real; Relational Life Therapy; USA.
- Trauma-informed care (Safe Supportive Parenting & Caregiving) - via Safe Circle; Singapore.
- Trauma conference: The Body Keeps the Score – Trauma Healing: via Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, Trauma Research Foundation; USA.
- Cognitive Behaviour Therapy in Our Daily Life - via Aventis, School of Management; Singapore.
- Introduction to Mental Health: Anxiety Disorders - via Aventis, School of Management; Singapore.
- Help Your Perfectionist Child Turn Anxiety Into Confidence - via Dr. Tina Payne Bryson; USA.
- Designing Play Invitations for Authentic Learning - via Sally Haughey; Fairy Dust Teaching; USA.
- Trigger Tools for Parenting and Partnerships - via Dr. Lynyetta Willis; Inner Path WA; USA.
- Nonviolent Communication - via Dr. Marshall Rosenberg; USA.
- Getting Bedtime Right - via Dr. Gordon Neufeld; Neufeld Institute; USA.
- Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids Course - via Dr. Laura Markham, Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids; USA.
TESTIMONIALS
“Marilyn is a wealth of knowledge. She did a wonderful job guiding us though the PPHK workbook.
She was very supportive and at the same time gently pushed us to become the parents we wanted to be.
She always had a thoughtful answer to our tough questions and took the time to follow up with each of us with what we were working on.
I highly recommend working with her either 1 on 1 or in a group setting. Thank you for everything Marilyn!”
Colleen
Mum of 13-year-old & 15-year-old
“Marilyn knows the material very well and provides excellent coaching.
She can provide really great tips and is really great in making one feel welcome and understood.
She's genuinely interested in helping and is fully flexible to go with what helps the group the most. I highly recommend her!”
Farinaz
Mum of 11-year-old
“Marilyn is the epitome of kindness. Her gentle nature, deep listening skills and in-depth knowledge surrounding Peaceful Parenting practices is a great combination in a coach.
When working with Marilyn, you really feel that she is hearing you, with no judgements, and her desire to help you improve your parenting life (and life in general) is palpable every step of the way.
You will definitely be in good hands with Marilyn.”
Meghan
Mum of 13-year-old & 15-year-old
“Marilyn has such an integrated way of sharing her motherly wisdom through words of loving compassion.
Her ability to hold you in the highest regard never fails her. She gently and lovingly invites you into healing as you’re ready and receptive to it!
I would highly recommend Marilyn as a mentor and guide on the journey of self-healing and love!”
Dajana
Mum of 4-year-old, 7-year-old & 11-year-old
READY TO REACH OUT FOR SUPPORT?
I'll Guide You Every Step of the Way.
STEP 1
Assessment
Click the button below to book a Free 30 min Discovery Call with me. We'll assess how I may support you in your parenting, and if we are a good fit.
STEP 2
Intake Form
If we are a good fit, and you're ready to dive deeper and commit to an actual coaching session with me, I'll send you a Coaching Application/Intake Form for you to fill out. We'll also schedule our first coaching session (and where applicable, subsequent coaching sessions) here.
STEP 3
Review & Prep
I request that you return the completed Coaching Application/Intake Form to me at least a week prior to our first session. I will then review your responses in preparation for our session. I respect your time and want to make the most out of our time together in our sessions.
STEP 4
Show up & Be present
Show up for your first session with a willing, open heart and mind. And congratulations! 🎉
You've just taken your first step to transforming your parenting! Remember Peaceful Parenting is a gift to you & your family; it's a long game, and I'm here to support you. 🫶🏻
FUN FACT (CLOSE TO MY HEART)
Being drawn to music & language, I dreamt of working in Radio when I was a teen. I semi-fulfilled that dream when I was in University, delivering and presenting news and drive-time programmes both via Community radio and Campus radio in Australia. Having graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in Mass Communication (Journalism & Radio), life took a different turn for me as I took to the skies, working across the globe with diversified nationalities, and living in the Middle East. Thereafter, I moved to Malaysia, assisting in the business operations of a chemical distribution company. I thought I would return to Radio at some stage, until I became a mother. That dream had changed to a deeper calling to support and serve parents like you, and I realised I had found my life’s work.
I still endeavoured to utilise God’s gift of music and vocals to me, which then led me to serve in my church's RCIA Music Ministry, and now, as a lector proclaiming God’s word - which I am immensely grateful for. I am thankful and find great joy to also serve as a children’s catechist and worship leader at my child's school.
At other times (on top of being a mum), when I’m not busy supporting parents and families, or diving into parenting or personal development books, courses and research; you will find me seeking solace & comfort through prayer, journaling, painting and creating art with my child (which I really love), and singing worship songs... Oh by the way — confession — I do also love belting out Idina Menzel's Let It Go <Frozen> (absolute fave 🤭), 80's rock ballads and a fair bit of Alanis Morissette & Bon Jovi ...💃🎸♫
As an imperfect Catholic parent, I thank God for His graces & mercy in my parenting journey. Peaceful Parenting actually reminds me of our gentle, merciful & unconditional loving God. I feel blessed & thankful that He has called me to the Peaceful Parenting path that’s so aligned with His peace & love. ❤️
- Click here if you'd like to read more about my personal story . . .
LET'S WORK TOGETHER
Regain Peace, Connection & Joy in Your Parenting
